Misha Crews

Love stories about old houses and family secrets.

I’ve been back in Virginia for eight months now! It’s so great to be back in my beautiful little town, hanging out with my hubby and my sister, treading all my familiar paths and finding some new ones. When I got home, there were three main things on which I wanted to focus: writing (of course!), downsizing/tidying up (my never-ending quest), and becoming more physically active. Here’s a little story that illustrates why that hasn’t happened as rapidly as it should have.

Tea and spices

I love chai tea. (Side note: I recently found out that “chai” actually means “tea,” so when we say “chai tea,” we are actually saying “tea tea.” But I digress.) It’s sweet, it’s spicy, it’s caffeinated — essentially, it’s the perfect substance. Also (don’t faint) but I’ve been trying to reduce the amount of coffee I drink. It’s been a hard road, friends, I won’t lie! Anyway, not long after I got back to Virginia, I started having these crazy cravings for a masala chai latte. But that delicious beverage is hard to find here in the country, so I decided to try to make my own.

I found some chai spice tea bags online, and that temporarily sated my thirst. It was fun playing with different sweeteners and trying coconut milk and other things. But then one day, when I was supposed to be writing (of course!) I got to thinking, how amazing would it be to make an authentic masala chai from scratch. Oooh, something shiny! What a great distraction!

I spent thirty minutes searching out recipes online, (this is the one I liked the best from the Feasting at Home blog) and I found that, although I have almost all the ingredients on hand (I would have to find cardamom pods, but that’s not completely impossible, and would be a good excuse to put off writing a little while longer), it seems kind of labor-intensive for a single cup of tea. So I then spent another thirty minutes looking for bulk teas to buy online. And finally, finally, after having spent two hours from the initial thought of “I’d love a chai latte,” I had to actually knuckle down and get some work done. But I’m not done with this whole tea thing.

When I was writing this post, I got interested again, and found this recipe from the Oh, How Civilized! blog. This one, because it’s focused on a large batch of tea, actually seems more like something I could do. So, I’m going to try it out and I will let you know how it goes. But now, I really, really have to do some writing.

Oh look, something shiny!

Cappaccino

Like most writers (and people), I have been very inspired by the life and writing of Maya Angelou. This quote, from her poem Human Family, is a beautiful example of her wisdom, humanity and artistry.

Read the whole poem here. It will warm your heart.

Here’s hoping that Ms. Angelou’s words continue to spread and inspire!

Note: this post started off light-heartedly but got kind of deep as I wrote it. It’s as imperfect as I am, and probably should be edited severely (as I should!) but I decided to leave it the way it came out. I hope you’re okay with that.

Love is my favorite four-letter word! It can be applied to so many things: friends, spouses, lovers, cats, cars, books, coffee… the list is endless.

And so here we are, on another Valentine’s Day, an occasion which celebrates romantic love above all others. But we all know that romantic love is only a small part of life: an important part, but a small one, nonetheless. So today, my friends, I wish that you can give and receive all kinds of love:

  • Love of self, which can be the hardest of all.
  • Love of family, the ones we love best who often try our patience the most.
  • Love of friends, the family we choose.
  • Love of humanity, though the daily news sometimes makes it hard to fathom why we should.
  • Love of flora and fauna: plants, animals, and all the lovely lifeforms that make up our world.
  • Love of the elements: earth, air, fire and water.
  • Love on a spiritual level, because spiritality is eternal.
  • Love of a Creator, however you choose to view that topic (even if, for you, the Creator is just a gigantic explosion that happened eons ago). We all came from somewhere, and we are all headed somewhere.

May all of these loves be yours today!

And to end this post the way it started, here are some other four-letter words that I enjoy: book, cafe, walk, cake, purr… That list is endless also.

Happy Valentine’s Day!

“You can feel a different kind of love for many people at the same time… Some you take care of, some you adore, some are friends and some you want to be with…. Some take over your heart and some take over your mind… but all along love is not the same for everyone in your life.” – Neena Gupta